Last night, as I was sleeping,–Antonio Machado
I dreamt—marvelous error!—
that a spring was breaking
out in my heart
I said: Along which secret aqueduct,
Oh water, are you coming to me,
water of a new life
that I have never drunk?
During this temporary time of national crisis stemming from the COVID-19 pandemic, I am conducting all of my therapy sessions using Teletherapy. I use Doxy.me, a HIPPA-compliant video platform that protects your privacy.
I am Tom Neilson, a licensed clinical psychologist practicing in Nashville. I earned my Psy. D. from the Florida Institute of Technology in Melbourne Florida in 1987 and my licensure from the State of Tennessee the following year.
My approach to therapy is unique in that it prioritizes the importance of developing self-compassion and a larger, more spacious perspective on life. I enjoy working with spiritual and existential issues in people of all faiths. I have been practicing psychotherapy for more than 30 years.
I frequently use a personality system called the Enneagram to clarify client strengths and issues, and to facilitate the process of therapy. I also encourage clients to develop mindfulness, a greater awareness of the present moment.
I specialize in treating grief and have received advanced training from The Center for Complicated Grief at Columbia University. My expertise in mindfulness includes a personal meditation practice for more than 30 years and attendance of over 25 mindfulness retreats.
More generally, my typical clients are experiencing depression, anxiety disorders, stress, difficult transitions, and adjustment problems. I work with adults and older adults who are experiencing both mild and severe problems. I do not work with children and adolescents. I do not usually work with individuals who are having alcohol or drug problems, or psychotic disorders.
My approach to psychological healing is holistic, mixing psychodynamic, mind/body, transpersonal, mindfulness, and cognitive-behavioral approaches to psychotherapy. My philosophy of therapy stresses respect for the client and an acknowledgment of the importance of meeting the client where he or she is. Therapy often involves the exploration of family of origin issues and the impact of old conditioning on current functioning. I also emphasize the importance of developing existing personal strengths and resources.
My office is located at 1410 17th Avenue South Nashville, TN 37212. However, I also do teletherapy, using Doxy.me, a HIPPA-compliant video platform that protects your privacy. Please call me at (615) 828-1054 to make an appointment
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